Just about every single kind of undesirable behavior and mental function can be caused by conflicts in a persons way of processing the world.

Stress, energy and problems focusing, along with almost every imaginable relationship problem can be eliminated if you stop personally identifying yourself, as the filters that you have that distort your perceptions.

Note:  The “problem” is before “the programming”, the programming that people waste years trying to fix comes much later, and often corrects itself, if we focus on what you are about to read next.

The problem is that your perceptions are filtered.  The incomplete data that is SPUN in a specific way, keeps you stuck, reduces your effectiveness, and causes relationship problems.

The Duality Sheet is a single page list of the Filters people use, we have compiled and refined over the past 20 years. These filters distort almost every perception and communication a person has, and tend to be very predictable.  We could call them unconscious preferences for how we choose to experience and relate to reality.

Terms from the duality sheet are often used in my courses, trainings, writings, and discussion groups. Some of those terms are obvious and easy to spot, others take a little time and work to wrap your mind around..

People become increasingly predictable and stuck, as they rely more on their filters.  People have more personal freedom, experience more creativity, and feel more connected with those around them as they experience more flexibility with their filters, and have less unconscious preference on them.

Thanks for the great question.

Twenty Twenty

PS:  The 2009 version of the Duality Sheet can be found in the Files section of our discussion group at  http://www.Dharmaville.org

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Let me know if this becomes shockingly familiar. Little Jimmy goes to school. Maybe just like you did.

Jimmy gets taught that it is important to know the right answer in school. The teacher rewards him when he spits out the right answer in a sentence and while he remains in his seat. Buckle up, this is gonna rock your world, from the inside out.

“Then we wonder why when Jimmy turns 16, or maybe 46, he knows the right thing to do, and he can TELL you (the figurative teacher) the right thing he should do, but he can’t get his arse off the couch and do it.” We call this, STUCK IN YOUR SEAT SYNDROME.

“Kids and adults learn abstractly. When we think we are teaching them one thing, we are actually teaching them many processes that will run or ruin their lives .”

Here is another example. Read it. It will seem innocent enough, until you combine with the process above.

This conversation happened the one day while I was training at the Pawn Hut, “Jimmy, be nice, go help grandma, and I’ll give you a cookie when you are done.”

Now that seems innocent, right? We hear this EVERY DAY. (And we are surrounded by junkies, addicts, and procrastinators….)

When you teach a child to be nice and go help grandma carry in the groceries, so he can have a cookie you are training a child to be a junkie, and maybe a manipulator too.

That’s pretty strong. Read on buckwheat!

“The real reward is feeling good about helping someone he loves, grandma. The cookie is the bonus.”

Feel good about DOING good things, INTERNAL CHOICE AND POWER.

Compare that to doing it for the Cookie. External BONUS.

Check this out….

Back when I was a child we just helped our elders. And it felt good to help. And sometimes you were given a surprise cookie. We were never told to do this so you’ll get the cookie.

It’s like teaching the child, “BE NICE so you get paid. Or laid. Or….. “

“No wonder kids, adults, seduction junkies, and drug users can’t be happy in the present moment, there is always a desired cookie, something sweet OUT THERE, in the future that they want.”

“I know, addiction is supposed to be a disease with no known cause and cure, yea, right. And procrastination is just “being lazy”. IF that was true, why do my clients start kicking real life ass when we get them out of those strategies and help them develop NEW ONES?

Now watch the patterning here, and learn from it.

“Every addict and every procrastinator I know knows the right answer, what to do to stop, what they need to do. Just like back in school, they can tell you the answer, but their ass remains in the seat… until…. they want a cookie bad enough – until they want to get high. Then they will do anything, even be incredibly nice to grandma, in other words LIE, CHEAT OR STEAL to get that cookie.”

Until you desire to change your life with EVERY SINGLE FIBER of your BEING, you won’t. You have to generate the desire to change your life, to better your world from within. Screw the cookie. Take action. Leaders lead, sheep follow. It’s time.

Mr Twenty Twenty The Ex Hostage – Professional Visionary – Weird Obtuse NLP Guru

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PPS: Movement changes BODY CHEMISTRY. A change in chemistry, changes your thinking, it opens the DOOR for new thinking habits and strategies TO GROW. If you just READ THIS ARTICLE, you will process it a tiny bit. If you MOVE, stretch, breathe deep, it will show up much more powerfully in your life.

Years ago, I was like many NLPers, I got stuck in my head…. with very little power.

And almost no satisfaction. I could make anyone jump through a hoop, do invisible anchoring, use embedded commands to get people to do silly shit, even do a swish pattern to resolve all the problems life had to offer.

So last night I’m watching this beautiful blonde, enjoying a free concert here in Austin at the South by South West Live Music festival.

And she reminds me of what’s really important when it comes to success, happiness, and how to “make it happen”.

Dance! Open your heart, have fun, dance!

(Bring some heart, some rhythm and dance to your life and your nlp)

Bring the power of FUN to what you are doing. I talk to at least 4 people a week who call me for coaching who have had miserable times in NLP trainings, or who at best just enjoyed the music…. which many NLP trainers use to augment states….

But most of the people I talk to never learned how to play, dance and enjoy using their skills in the real world.

And until they do, they will keep having to use their skills…. and struggling with them… instead of… LIVING LIFE TO THE FULLEST!

Just letting their own elegance, grace and personal presence show up.

Think about this, what if you could enjoy learning and playing with your skill sets…. to the point where YOU could show up more completely than ever before… and the life you started living went far beyond getting results with techniques.

In other words, what I you could learn NLP in a way that took you beyond ever having to use it.

Wouldn’t that be powerful and fun?

Mr. Twenty Twenty

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Thursday, September 20, 2007

Good Morning,

Now that I have your attention.

Would you like to learn a secret formula that opens doors?

A secret formula that will transform your life?

A secret formula that takes only a few minutes a day to use and one that yields massive results?

Here goes.

The first step is to ask. Ask. That’s it. Make a simple request.

I asked the folks from Colonblow.com, a colon cleanse company to send me a shirt. And they did, because I aked.

Now for the second step. Give them a reason why. A reason to say yes.

When I was filling out a customer satisfaction survey for them, they asked for comments .

I supplied them with comments, including, “Would you send me a Colonblow Shirt so I can wear it on one of my websites?”

Notice I gave them a reason why.

Notice the reason why IMPLIED a benefit for THEM.

And I am delivering. Their portable colon cleanse works extremely well!

Get it!

Okay… today, apply this to your life.

“It’s the simple things that yield massive results.” – DB Brown

Ask. Give a reason. and Make sure it’s a reason that includes a benefit for them.

And deliver.

Mr. Twenty Twenty

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Napoleon Hill knew THIS…. but most of his followers don’t have a clue.

Think about it.  “Thinking” is a vague word.  Usually when people talk about thinking their focus is on what’s being said, or what
they want you to say.  If you just listen, observe, and notice you’ll find this to be very true.

In other words, Positive Thinking is almost always all TALK.

Here is the Hidden Key that Napoleon Hill, Author of Think and grow rich had and that you need to live a Kick Ass life.

Napoleon Hill was a visionary.  His WORDS were driven by his vision.

He didn’t try to fix his words, he simply noticed how he used them to clarify and empower his vision. Clarifying and empowering your vision will transform your words, no effort required.

When I held a weekend crash course back in September 2006 called Subjective Modeling – The Napoleon Hill Project we LISTENED to rare recordings of Napoleon Hill.

Using advanced NLP modeling, we took apart EXACTLY HOW he used his inner vision to construct his world, and to change the world we live in.

“Napoleon Hill DID NOT think positive, he simply had CLEAR VISION.”

Clear vision is the key. Get a mentor / adviser / coach to train you to to notice what gets in the way of you having and taking action on your CLEAR POWERFUL vision. (Of course our Depth Course will help with that…. Crass Commercial message over.)

And if you look around you, you will find that almost EVERYONE out there is talking to themselves way to much, mumbling all day and all night, because they don’t have a vision.

How will your life impact your world?

Let me know, comment below.

Mr. Twenty Twenty

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I may be giving him a refund. But not until he decides how he want’s to live his life.

This one concept could transform your life today!

Our work has two simple foundations. First your growth is more important and more powerful than any skill or technique. The second foundation is since we are “technique” junkies, use learning techniques as an opportunity to stimulate your growth. This post is a great example of that.

You’ll read below in my reply, “Think about this, if you decide to tell them to screw off and stop laughing at you, and develop your skills how many ways will your life change. It isn’t about the handshake induction at all. It’s about how life is lived.”

That’s it. Learning the Handshake Induction may change his life. But it won’t be the technique that does it, it will be what he discovers about himself.

Read and enjoy,

Mr. Twenty Twenty

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—–Original Message—–
From: Martin
Sent: Thursday, March 22, 2007 9:37 AM

I saw your video. It is different but, I tried it on my daughter, who also saw the video and it doesn’t work. I am not sure if I am doing it wrong. We go to shake hands, I pull my hand back an inch, I use my other hand to hold her wrist, I pull up her hand, my shaking hand follows her shaking hand that I am pulling up, I start to point to her hand and say LOOK! Look at you hand. She looks at me and laughs….

What am I doing wrong? I even tried it on my girlfriend’s 11 year old son who did not watch the video and it didn’t work.
Help. I believe it works but my family is laughing at me and saying I wasted my money. I would like to show them that it works. Help…

Thanks,

Martin

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Hi Martin,

The handshake induction is a skill mate, just like martial arts.

You don’t just see the jumping back kick, do it on a kid, and have it perfected.

Skills take time. Learning skills changes your life, because almost no one takes the time.

Everyone laughs at stuff like this. Think about how many folks make fun of martial artists….

Anyhoo…

Don’t try it to see if it works, practice the parts, develop your skills.

Also, you need to lead them into trance. If you are “wide awake” they will stay wide awake, because that’s where you lead them to.

Who cares if they are laughing at you? Develop the skills. If you want a refund instead let me know.

No big deal, just send it back. To be honest, trance work scares the crap out of some folks.

You’d be surprised how many folks laughed at me and didn’t want me to learn this stuff.

Anyhoo…. Ask me anything…. Take your time if you decide to keep it and explore…. The best folks I have trained with this Have watched the video over 47 times, and have played with it for years. I still play and experiment with it. But it’s not for everyone.

Refund or explore. It’s up to you. Personally I won’t ever let $50 get in the way between me and you.

Think about this,if you decide to tell them to screw off and stop laughing at you, and develop your skills how many ways will your life change.

It isn’t about the handshake induction at all. It’s about how life is lived.

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