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		<title>Modeling Neville Goddard &#8211; Part 1</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Jan 2011 15:15:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>mr2020</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#8220;Effective modeling begins with ignoring what the person you are modeling says or thinks is important, and noticing exactly how, when, and where he puts his attention, energy, and focus.&#8221;
Many readers of Neville Goddard miss what would call the big splash in Neville Goddard&#8217;s stream of life.   The big splash is what is the actually state and process Neville Goddard is in when he is manifesting.
The big splash is what we will focus on here today.  The big splash is caused by the BIG ROCK.  The big rock is exactly the processes inside Neville&#8217;s mind, and what we studied, explored and discovered while taking the mind of Neville Goddard in our 2009 Remarkable program.   Neville was just one of 12 folks we modeled that year, with some really cool results.  I&#8217;d love to share the Big Rock, but that is very complicated in written form.
Onward!
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;Effective modeling begins with ignoring what the person you are modeling says or thinks is important, and noticing exactly how, when, and where he puts his attention, energy, and focus.&#8221;</strong></p></blockquote>
<p><a rel="attachment wp-att-1092" href="http://nlplive.com/success-power-points/modeling-neville-goddard-part-1/attachment/neville_goddard/"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-1092" title="Neville_Goddard" src="http://nlplive.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/09/Neville_Goddard-199x300.jpg" alt="" width="199" height="300" /></a>Many readers of Neville Goddard miss what would call the big splash in Neville Goddard&#8217;s stream of life.   The big splash is what is the actually state and process Neville Goddard is in when he is manifesting.</p>
<p>The big splash is what we will focus on here today.  The big splash is caused by the BIG ROCK.  The big rock is exactly the processes inside Neville&#8217;s mind, and what we studied, explored and discovered while taking the mind of Neville Goddard in our 2009 Remarkable program.   Neville was just one of 12 folks we modeled that year, with some really cool results.  I&#8217;d love to share the Big Rock, but that is very complicated in written form.</p>
<p>Onward!</p>
<blockquote><p><strong>Many people who read or listen to Neville Goddard miss something vital in Neville&#8217;s stream &#8211; how life flows through him.   Many people who I talk and email with seem to attempt to manifest using Neville&#8217;s spoken method &#8211; using a strong sense of desire.</strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Back to modeling.  Neveille may have said desire is important, and Neville might sound like he is full of raging desire, but if you do what we did in 2009 and take apart the mind and the processes inside Neville Goddard&#8217;s mind, modeling with NLP the way we do &#8211; you&#8217;ll discover 3 very powerful keys.</p>
<blockquote><p><strong>1.  Neville Goddard had almost no desire in his body.  Neville Goddard had a very unique way of being / feeling / expressing certainty.</strong></p>
<p><strong>2.  Neville Goddard expressed his certainty in a way that projected it &#8211; through his body and into the rest of the universe.  It was like his body and the universe were truly ONE.</strong></p>
<p><strong>3.  Neville had a very good understanding of the difference between desire and his way of projecting certainty.</strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Now take a moment, and notice.  If you are a fan of Neville Goddard or not, this is a really powerful moment in your life.</p>
<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;Take the time to notice the difference &#8211; in your body &#8211; between strongly desiring something and being certain of it&#8217;s fulfillment.  It&#8217;s a huge difference, and the more you explore it, the more you will find Neville Goddard&#8217;s methods working for you.&#8221;</strong></p></blockquote>
<p>If you enjoyed this tiny little peek into the mind and process of Neville Goddard, and would like more of our nlp modeling of him, leave a comment below.</p>
<p>Here is Part 2 &#8211; <a href="http://nlplive.com/articles/modeling-tim-ferris-and-neville-goddard-part-2/" target="_self">Modeling Neville Goddard</a></p>
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<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;I listened to the first two downloads and am very glad and grateful I was led to your sight.  I have followed Neville Goddard for about a year now and have adopted a completely fresh perspective based on my feeling that all perspectives are ok.  However it is fun learning more about myself, and seeing how I can grow more consciously.   Your recordings are awesome and i feel I have grown so much in 80 minutes.  It is my pleasure to support you and thank you for sharing!!!&#8221;  :D  Sema</strong></p></blockquote>
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		<title>Ego Getting You Down?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Aug 2010 22:47:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>mr2020</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Many problems I have found with NLP coaching clients come down to an excessive &#8220;sense of self&#8221; combined with a need for &#8220;external validation&#8221;.

&#8220;Notice the difference between the first half of each sentence below and the second half.  The first half has less focus on &#8220;the ego&#8221; and more on a quality.  The second half is more ego centric.&#8221;

There is a difference between a talk that is intelligent, and someone trying to sound intelligent.
There is a difference between someone being kind, and someone appearing to do kind things.
There is a difference between brilliance and an attempt by someone at being clever.



With one, there is intelligence, kindness and brilliance.
With the other, there is ego and maybe what follows ego.
One is very attractive.  The other is seductive and repelling both.



Learning to distinguish between the two is priceless, and quite a useful distinction.

Here are three things you can to to &#8220;get over&#8221; the ...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div id="_mcePaste">Many problems I have found with NLP coaching clients come down to an excessive &#8220;sense of self&#8221; combined with a need for &#8220;external validation&#8221;.</div>
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<div><strong>&#8220;Notice the difference between the first half of each sentence below and the second half.  The first half has less focus on &#8220;the ego&#8221; and more on a quality.  The second half is more ego centric.&#8221;</strong></div>
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<div><strong>There is a difference between a talk that is intelligent</strong>, and someone trying to sound intelligent.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste"><strong>There is a difference between someone being kind</strong>, and someone appearing to do kind things.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste"><strong>There is a difference between brilliance </strong>and an attempt by someone at being clever.</div>
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<li><strong>With one, there is intelligence, kindness and brilliance.</strong></li>
<li><strong>With the other, there is ego and maybe what follows ego.</strong></li>
<li><strong>One is very attractive.  The other is seductive and repelling both.</strong></li>
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<div id="_mcePaste">Learning to distinguish between the two is priceless, and quite a useful distinction.</div>
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<div><strong>Here are three things you can to to &#8220;get over&#8221; the ego.</strong></div>
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</strong></div>
<div><strong>1.  At the end of the day, take time to quietly reflect on your thoughts.  Notice how much &#8220;sense of self&#8221; was involved in both thinking and in activities.</strong></div>
<div><strong><br />
</strong></div>
<div><strong>2.  Do this little exercise inside your mind.   Make a picture of your car.  Put you in it.  Take you out of it.   Make a picture of your kitchen.  Put you in it.  Take you out it.  Make a picture of your oven.  Put you in it.  Take you out of it.  - Get creative with this one.</strong></div>
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<div><strong>3.  Notice if you have a preference when you spontaneously make images during the day &#8211; are you in your images or not?   Notice how this changes over time.</strong></div>
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<div>These tiny little exercises loosen up how you represent &#8220;you&#8221; inside your mind.  There are plenty more of these that you&#8217;ll find in our recordings, or that we will spontaneously develop during a training or a coaching &#8211; consulting call.</div>
<div>Have fun!</div>
<div>Mr Twenty Twenty</div>
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		<title>Will submodality changes will hurt you?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Aug 2010 14:23:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>mr2020</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hey mate,
Within 24 hours of me posting on an NLP newsgroup, about me and Billy doing a live training at the mall, I&#8217;ve  received 3 emails telling me what I did with Billy was a simple submodality  change.
&#8220;Bull.  If you think that you don&#8217;t have a clue.  I NEVER do  submodality work, because submodality changes simply do not work.&#8221;
Submodality changes don&#8217;t work.  Not in the REAL WORLD.  Here&#8217;s why.

First a  quick definition or two.  Your brain has 3 major modalities, the ways thought is  represented. 
The three major modalites are Visual, what you see&#8230;.  Auditory, what you hear&#8230;. And Kinesthetic, what you feelphysically.
Submodalities are the specifics of HOW one of those is  specifically represented in your thinking.
Visual for example can be a  movie or a still image, color or black and white, near or far, etc.
The  theory of submodality ...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey mate,</p>
<p><span>Within 24 hours of me posting on an NLP newsgroup, about me and Billy doing a live training at the mall, I&#8217;ve  received 3 emails telling me what I did with Billy was a simple submodality  change.</span></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;Bull.  If you think that you don&#8217;t have a clue.  I NEVER do  submodality work, because submodality changes simply do not work.&#8221;</strong></p></blockquote>
<p><span><strong>Submodality changes don&#8217;t work.  Not in the REAL WORLD.  Here&#8217;s why.</strong><br />
<strong><br />
First a  quick definition or two.  Your brain has 3 major modalities, the ways thought is  represented. </strong></span></p>
<p><span>The three major modalites are Visual, what you see&#8230;.  Auditory, what you hear&#8230;. And Kinesthetic, what you feelphysically.</span></p>
<p><span><em>Submodalities are the specifics of HOW one of those is  specifically represented in your thinking.</em></span></p>
<p><span>Visual for example can be a  movie or a still image, color or black and white, near or far, etc.</span></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><span><strong>The  theory of submodality change is that when you find out what &#8220;Billy&#8221; is currently  doing, with his images, and you ask him to change them, like a picture into a movie, you&#8217; will change his  life.</strong></span></p>
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<p style="text-align: left;"><strong><span>Bull. If it worked that way we would all be perfect in the next ten  minutes. </span></strong></p>
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<p><span>Think about this and notice&#8230;.</span></p>
<p><span>Because if I go in  and change Billy&#8217;s still images into movies he will demonstrate a change in his  body, and for a very short time in his behavior.</span></p>
<p><span> <strong>In other words, it will look  good on stage. </strong></span></p>
<p><span><em>But it never seems to stick.</em></span></p>
<p><span>I&#8217;ve said this for  YEARS, and almost nobody gets this&#8230;..</span></p>
<blockquote>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong><span>&#8220;When a submodality of yours  changes, like still images into movies, </span></strong><strong>the submodality change stays only stay  changed if  THE WAY YOU PERCEIVE YOU HAS CHANGED. &#8220;</strong></p>
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<p><span>In other words, if some nlp master does a  submodality change on  you, asking you to change your still images into movies,  you will feel good for a short time.  You maybe even do something outrageous on  stage.  But your new found &#8220;movies&#8221; will revert back to still images in a very  short time, and certainly under stress.</span></p>
<p><span><strong>Want to know what really  happened to Billy during our live training at the mall?</strong></span></p>
<p><span>I didn&#8217;t do a bit of submodality change.<strong> </strong></span></p>
<p><strong>Instead I did something very simple and very powerful.</strong></p>
<blockquote><p><span><strong>I asked  Billy questions that enabled him to notice what held his images in  place.</strong></span></p></blockquote>
<p><span>Read that again Buckwheat.</span></p>
<blockquote><p><span><strong>I did not ask him to change it  from a still image into a movie.   That would be a waste of his money, and my  time.</strong></span></p></blockquote>
<p><span>What I did was I helped him notice his bs &#8211; the bs that made his movies into  still images. </span>That took HOURS&#8230;..    and tons of tiny steps.  And  suddenly it became clear to him the BS that he had to let go of &#8211; so that he could more fully live &#8211; and so his mind could process reality in BOTH still images and in movies.</p>
<blockquote><p><strong><span>&#8220;That is what the nlp masters discovered  and did back in the old days.  So why don&#8217;t they teach it?  It took me the  better part of 10 years to get good at at the basics of this.  You can&#8217;t just  get it in a 5 day work shop with a hundred other people.  You&#8217;ve got to get it either  one on one or in small groups.  And you&#8217;ve got to invest TIME in learning how to notice what matters, and to learn how to discard what doesn&#8217;t matter at all.&#8221;</span></strong></p></blockquote>
<p><span>So, wake up buckwheat.</span></p>
<p><span><em>Just to  repeat, asking them to make the picture bigger, brighter, into a movie, and then  to step into it is great for DEMONSTRATING ON STAGE what happens when a clients  submodalites shift.<br />
</em> <strong><br />
Asking them to make the shifts, without getting them  to notice what makes them mess it up in the first place is  pointless.<br />
</strong><br />
</span>And it never seems to last.</p>
<p>And it&#8217;s why most  NLP and Neuro Lingustic Programming practitioners suck.</p>
<blockquote><p><strong>So wake up  buckwheat.   If you want to do something useful, instead of kicking around the  same old dead horse, contact me for some private training or coaching.  If you want to waste time, take yet another NLP seminar.  Nuff said.  Whoo yah! </strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Mr Twenty Twenty</p>
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		<title>Why isn&#8217;t NLP working for me?</title>
		<link>http://nlplive.com/free-stuff/why-isnt-nlp-working-for-me/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Aug 2010 14:54:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>mr2020</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[His email was the way I like them, straight to the point, &#8220;Why isn&#8217;t it working for me?&#8221;
I ask myself, &#8220;what is the result I have in mind, but why isn&#8217;t it working for me?  (Read Part 1 Here:  The Question)
Bobby shot me $25 and we did a quick 15 minute coaching call, and what I noticed was this:
1.  Bobby was kept stating what he did NOT want, when answering the question.  &#8221;I don&#8217;t want to look stupid, and I don&#8217;t want to lose money.&#8221;
2.  After we killed off that demon, Bobby moved onto the next big mistake.  &#8221;I just want things to be different.&#8221;
Bobby started out FOCUSED on what he didn&#8217;t want, then he was vague.  Here&#8217;s the key:
&#8220;To get to the next level, you MUST be thinking in terms of PRECISE OUTCOMES &#8211; with NO NEGATIVES.&#8221;
Here are a few examples:

&#8220;Produce 1 income earning adsense website a week.&#8221;
&#8220;Relax and ...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>His email was the way I like them, straight to the point, &#8220;Why isn&#8217;t it working for me?&#8221;</p>
<p>I ask myself, &#8220;what is the result I have in mind, but why isn&#8217;t it working for me?  (Read Part 1 Here:  <a href="http://nlplive.com/free-stuff/are-you-asking-this-specific-question-enough/" target="_blank">The Question</a>)</p>
<p>Bobby shot me $25 and we did a quick 15 minute coaching call, and what I noticed was this:</p>
<blockquote><p><strong>1.  Bobby was kept stating what he did NOT want, when answering the question.  &#8221;I don&#8217;t want to look stupid, and I don&#8217;t want to lose money.&#8221;</strong></p>
<p><strong>2.  After we killed off that demon, Bobby moved onto the next big mistake.  &#8221;I just want things to be different.&#8221;</strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Bobby started out FOCUSED on what he didn&#8217;t want, then he was vague.  Here&#8217;s the key:</p>
<p><strong>&#8220;To get to the next level, you MUST be thinking in terms of PRECISE OUTCOMES &#8211; with NO NEGATIVES.&#8221;</strong></p>
<p>Here are a few examples:</p>
<ul>
<li><strong><em>&#8220;Produce 1 income earning adsense website a week.&#8221;</em></strong></li>
<li><strong><em>&#8220;Relax and enjoy the company of a nice woman.&#8221;</em></strong></li>
<li><strong><em>&#8220;Exercise 3 times a week.&#8221;<a href="http://nlplive.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/2020linnrun180.jpg"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-950" title="Mr 2020" src="http://nlplive.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/2020linnrun180.jpg" alt="" width="180" height="240" /></a><br />
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<li><strong><em>&#8220;Start taking karate classes this month.&#8221;</em></strong></li>
</ul>
<p>Notice how SIMPLE and DIRECT each of those &#8220;results in mind&#8221; are.</p>
<p>So go read part 1 again and do it!</p>
<p>Trust me, I&#8217;ve been doing this for almost 2 decades.  This works.  But it works only if you actually do it.</p>
<p>Mr Twenty Twenty</p>
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		<title>What sales trainers don&#8217;t want you to know.</title>
		<link>http://nlplive.com/sales-power-points/sales-trainers-dont-want-you-to-know-this/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Aug 2010 13:13:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>mr2020</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[If you want to close more sales, and get more yesses, you&#8217;ll love this.  It recently came up on a Personal Consulting Coaching call.

If you expect the sale to be hard, or fall through, it will show up in all you do.
If you assert the sale will be easier than the prospect thinks it will be, you will invite resistance from him.

(Notice how THINKING gets in the way?)
Here is the NO PRESSURE sales secret:
&#8220;THE SALE WILL BE IF THE SALE IS MEANT TO BE,&#8221; Notice this, and all pressure &#8211; on you and the prospect is off.   All you have to do now is fully participate and connect with your prospect.
If you have no expectations about &#8220;the sale&#8221; and fully engage the prospect, with presence &#8211; you will close more sales.
Want more sales?  Think Destiny.  If the sale is meant to be the sale will happen &#8211; ...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If you want to close more sales, and get more yesses, you&#8217;ll love this.  It recently came up on a Personal Consulting Coaching call.</p>
<ul>
<li>If you expect the sale to be hard, or fall through, it will show up in all you do.</li>
<li>If you assert the sale will be easier than the prospect thinks it will be, you will invite resistance from him.</li>
</ul>
<p><strong>(Notice how THINKING gets in the way?)</strong></p>
<p><em>Here is the NO PRESSURE sales secret:</em></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;THE SALE WILL BE IF THE SALE IS MEANT TO BE,&#8221; Notice this, and all pressure &#8211; on you and the prospect is off.   All you have to do now is fully participate and connect with your prospect.</strong></p></blockquote>
<p>If you have no expectations about &#8220;the sale&#8221; and fully engage the prospect, with presence &#8211; you will close more sales.</p>
<p><strong><em>Want more sales?  Think Destiny. </em></strong> If the sale is meant to be the sale will happen &#8211; if you fully participate in the process and fully connect with the prospect.</p>
<p>Now let&#8217;s get down and dirty and dismantle the thinking loops you have that get in the way of living this.</p>
<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;When THINKING gets in the way &#8211; of live &#8211; of living &#8211; of results &#8211; it is time to dismantle it.  Not improve it.   Think about that!&#8221;</strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Mr Twenty Twenty</p>
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		<title>Rapport Coaching Work It For You Too?</title>
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		<dc:creator>mr2020</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In just 8 weeks, James stopped using every rapport method he had ever learned, and just started connecting with people.
James started connecting naturally.
James started connecting easily.
James started connecting enjoyably.
8 weeks earlier, James emailed me.  He was pissed.  He was angry.  He felt all alone, that he had been gyped, he felt that nobody on earth understood him.
Except for me.
He had been reading articles here, on NLP LIVE for a few weeks.  The night he emailed me he had been reading for over an hour.    It was then, that it hit him.
&#8220;I don&#8217;t need more techniques methods or secrets, what I need is someone like you to, just do what you do.  I&#8217;ve heard you on your radio show, I&#8217;ve listened to your recordings, I&#8217;ve heard how you so naturally connect with people.  I need you to connect with me and help me get what I&#8217;ve been missing.  Would you please ...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>In just 8 weeks, James stopped using every rapport method he had ever learned, and just started connecting with people.</strong></p>
<p>James started connecting naturally.</p>
<p>James started connecting easily.</p>
<p>James started connecting enjoyably.</p>
<p>8 weeks earlier, James emailed me.  He was pissed.  He was angry.  He felt all alone, that he had been gyped, he felt that nobody on earth understood him.</p>
<p>Except for me.</p>
<p>He had been reading articles here, on NLP LIVE for a few weeks.  The night he emailed me he had been reading for over an hour.    It was then, that it hit him.</p>
<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;I don&#8217;t need more techniques methods or secrets, what I need is someone like you to, just do what you do.  I&#8217;ve heard you on your radio show, I&#8217;ve listened to your recordings, I&#8217;ve heard how you so naturally connect with people.  I need you to connect with me and help me get what I&#8217;ve been missing.  Would you please help me?  I need to connect with people, and I don&#8217;t want to keep trying to use rapport methods.&#8221;</strong></p></blockquote>
<p>So we did a total of 10 weeks of coaching.  Helping him &#8220;do what I do&#8221;.</p>
<p>Our calls were fun, challenging, and very unique.  They were NOT about rapport techniques or rapport methods.</p>
<p><strong>We did 10 weeks of rapport coaching, helping him notice when he did just 2 things.</strong></p>
<ol>
<li><strong>Notice when he was losing peoples interest and attention.</strong></li>
<li><strong>Notice when he left them behind, and went into his own little trance world.</strong></li>
</ol>
<p>I trained him how to NOTICE and USE ATTENTION, because:</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>All people want is attention &#8211; from you. </strong></p>
<p>If you don&#8217;t know how to NOTICE BOTH your attention and their attention, then you are probably one of those people who are frustrated, and wondering why you still can&#8217;t connect with people.</p>
<p>Let me know if this makes sense, and if you want in.</p>
<p>Email:  2020@exhostage.com</p>
<p>James, I thank you for asking me to do this kind of work with you.  I thank you for having the guts to reach out, to keep showing up for our calls, and for investing in you.</p>
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