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		<title>Eliminate Shitty Beliefs in 3 easy steps. Positions of Power #1</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Jan 2012 17:23:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Shitty Belief Structures &#8211; See them as real and they make you one of the living dead &#8211; accomplishing or having what you really want.  Try this on &#8211; it works.:
&#8220;When your shitty beliefs are more real to you than the REAL you is &#8211; you will defend the BELIEFS and attack yourself &#8211; until either they die or you do.&#8221;  - Mr Twenty Twenty
Let that sink in &#8211; deeply.  Ponder it for just a moment.  I wonder why almost nobody is telling you this &#8211; sharing it this way &#8211; or giving away a system like this that works.
We do because Shitty Belief Structures &#8211; make you one of the walking dead &#8211; and I hate zombies and their dead dreams.
Here is an example &#8211; how we use 3 sentences to NUKE Shitty Belief Structures &#8211; in seconds..
We call this THE SPLIT &#8211; It&#8217;s the core of part one ...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://nlplive.com/nlp/rapport-building-is-bullshit-part-2-now-what/attachment/amberface/" rel="attachment wp-att-840"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-840" title="amber" src="http://www.nlplive.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/amberface.jpg" alt="" width="163" height="195" /></a>Shitty Belief Structures &#8211; See them as real and they make you one of the living dead &#8211; accomplishing or having what you really want.  Try this on &#8211; it works.:</p>
<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;When your shitty beliefs are more real to you than the REAL you is &#8211; you will defend the BELIEFS and attack yourself &#8211; until either they die or you do.&#8221;  - Mr Twenty Twenty</strong></p></blockquote>
<p><strong>Let that sink in &#8211; deeply.  Ponder it for just a moment.</strong>  I wonder why almost nobody is telling you this &#8211; sharing it this way &#8211; or giving away a system like this that works.</p>
<p>We do because Shitty Belief Structures &#8211; make you one of the walking dead &#8211; and I hate zombies and their dead dreams.</p>
<p>Here is an example &#8211; how we use 3 sentences to NUKE Shitty Belief Structures &#8211; in seconds..</p>
<p>We call this THE SPLIT &#8211; It&#8217;s the core of part one of POSITIONS OF POWER.</p>
<p><em><strong>Women Problems?</strong></em>   (This works wonders with money too.  Just change it up a bit and read it again.)</p>
<blockquote><p><strong>I had a client last week who had problems connecting with women.  He called up and we noticed in his languaging that he had both shitty experiences and beliefs about women and relationships. After structuring the session, and opening him up a bit, it became even more obvious his beliefs about women made him feel frustrated and  isolated and he honestly didn&#8217;t want to feel lonely anymore. I can imagine the fun he was missing out on, been there, done that.  </strong></p></blockquote>
<p><strong>Here is how we SCIENTIFICALLY SHATTERED his SHITTY BELIEF STRUCTUES with THE SLIT &#8211; from Positions of Power.</strong></p>
<p>We used THE SLIT about 10 minutes into the call.:  After I set the stage for the call, and he shared his stuff, I said to him:</p>
<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;So let&#8217;s presuppose that THAT can be true &#8211; what you said about women (notice I did NOT say believe &#8211; that would activate his innate defense / attack systems), and you&#8217;ve experienced THAT somehow. Do you suppose there is at least one woman (PAUSE)- or maybe that there are SOME women who are different than that (PAUSE &#8211; he indicates yes) and S0  think about this, you never know when you might find one right in front of you.&#8221;</strong></p></blockquote>
<p>We only did a tiny bit more in that session, to cement that in &#8211; because there were indications that that was what he needed &#8211; shifts happened &#8211; and that he was ready to keep them.  You&#8217;ll hear more about his BIG TIME changes &#8211; later.</p>
<p><strong>STEP BY STEP &#8211; USE THIS TINY  PART OF THE METHOD &#8211; STARTING RIGHT NOW</strong></p>
<p>If you want to learn how to do this in just a few minutes and find out precisely why it works &#8211; read on.</p>
<p>Here is how those three sentences &#8211; from the first recording from the PreSuppose Power System work:</p>
<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;So let&#8217;s suppose that THAT can be true &#8211; what you said about. ______&#8221;</strong>  I am supposing that what he says &#8211; CAN &#8211; be true.  We are giving it permission to be true FOR HIM with the word CAN.   This first step is vital &#8211; because SHITTY BELIEF STRUCTURES &#8211; Poor Presuppositions &#8211; always begin small, with small slices of experience &#8211; then get GLOBALIZED in the mind &#8211; because they were GIVEN PERMISSION to grow &#8211; until they become unbearable. We have to acknowledge what happened &#8211; inside the mind &#8211; with give permission word CAN in this phrase &#8211; to set the stage.</p>
<p><strong>&#8220;and that you have experienced that somehow&#8221;</strong> &#8211; We acknowledge that THAT was experienced &#8211; somehow and we address part of that experience in a way that almost every pactitioner overlooks.  We use one or two TINY WORDS to bring together BOTH their direct experience and INDIRECT experience &#8211; of the Shitty Belief Support Structure &#8211; so that EVERYTHING CHANGES &#8211; and there is no residual garbage to deal with later &#8211; inside the mind.</p></blockquote>
<p>We have to include this now &#8211; before we finish up this segment:</p>
<blockquote><p><strong>THE MISTAKE MOST PEOPLE MAKE:  If both the DIRECT &#8211; first hand experience &#8211; AND &#8211; INDIRECT FACILITATING STRUCTURES inside the mind are not INCLUDED in the process &#8211; change won&#8217;t happen deep enough &#8211; or won&#8217;t last long.  </strong></p></blockquote>
<p><strong>POWERPOINT:  The INDIRECT FACILITATING STRUCTURES inside the mind are WHAT causes them to later START DEFENDING AND REBUILDING their Shitty Belief Structure.  </strong>It&#8217;s sort of like buyer&#8217;s remorse &#8211; in self developent and changework. <strong> INDIRECT </strong>includes - stuff witnessed, imagined, saw in a movie, were told about, overheard, and even gossip and small talk.  If we don&#8217;t INCLUDE the INDIRECT FACILITATING STRUCTURES now, they will erode the positive change over time.</p>
<p><em><strong>Back to the POSITIONS OF POWER PART 1:  </strong></em></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>You&#8217;ll notice above we included the tiny little phrase &#8220;somehow&#8221; &#8211; &#8220;and that you have experienced that SOMEHOW&#8221;.</strong>  That is all we need to include &#8211; that or a phrase like, &#8220;in some way&#8221; to included the INDIRECT FACILITATING STRUCTURES and eliminate resistance to change.</p></blockquote>
<p><strong>The next step is:  NOTICING EXCEPTIONS &#8211; TO OPEN UP TO AND TO SUPPORT CHANGE</strong></p>
<p>The final part of the first segment of POSITIONS OF POWER &#8211; opens open up the mind to <strong>ACTIVELY notice exceptions to the SHITTY BELIEF STRUCTURES</strong> &#8211; and notice them in a way that helps build in POWER PACKED PRESUPPOSITIONS.  Here is how they work.</p>
<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;Do you suppose there is at least one woman&#8221; </strong> - We are asking for a tiny REDUCULOUS exception to THEIR RULE &#8211; their Shitty Belief Structure.  Of course, all parts of their mind, have to say YES.</p>
<p><strong>&#8220;Or maybe that there are some women who are different than THAT&#8221; </strong>- Building on the small slice exception above &#8211; this is like watering a plant &#8211; after it is planted.  We must do this too &#8211; so that the FUTURE PACING next works exceptionally well.</p></blockquote>
<p><strong>And we finalize this part of  POSITIONS OF POWER - with FUTURE PACING:</strong></p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;Y<strong>ou never know when you might find one right in front of you.&#8221; </strong> FUTURE PACING &#8211; tells him &#8211; to start LOOKING FOR the positive &#8211; the powerful &#8211; the plentiful &#8211; and it works powerfully &#8211; because it is pointing him outside the previous poverty conditions of his mind &#8211; to notice what is really there.  Women who are worth connecting with &#8211; right in front of them.</p></blockquote>
<p><strong>Notice the simplicity and speed here in just the segment of POSITIONS OF POWER.</strong></p>
<p>MANY MORE BENEFITS AND METHODS IN THE BIG PACKAGE. &#8211; PRESELL SPECIAL</p>
<p><strong>In the Complete Package you will learn:</strong></p>
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<li><strong>How to cement change in &#8211; make it stick.</strong></li>
<li><strong>How to use the mindset and methods in sales ETHICLY.</strong></li>
<li><strong>Why many belief change systems actually sabotage your results &#8211; what to do if they get added in &#8211; how to make sure they don&#8217;t.</strong></li>
<li><strong>What to do speed up and reinforce your results INSTEAD OF AFFIRMATIONS.</strong></li>
<li><strong>How to use affirmations &#8211; 3 shifts that make them work.</strong></li>
<li><strong>How to kill off and stop dead Viral Belief Systems &#8211; nasty stuff done mostly by television marketers, well intending NEGATIVE relatives and friends.</strong></li>
<li><strong>And 13 other POWER POINTS.  And if you follow the system as we teach it in the training manuals and mp3s &#8211; you&#8217;ll find that it starts to run on  AUTOPILOT.</strong></li>
</ul>
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		<title>Meeting Women &#8211; The Truth about NLP</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Jan 2012 14:47:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>mr2020</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[When it comes to dating and mating, you can use your NLP to either develop you or to manipulate women.
Use NLP to live FULL OUT  - and learn how to flirt &#8211; and you&#8217;ll naturally hook up.  done.
You see if you think you need skills to meet women, you will get in the way of your natural charm.  Women love authentic charm, and women love men who appreciate their beauty.
WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU CHOOSE TO BE THE CAPTAIN OF YOUR DESTINY?
The Captain of the football team doesn&#8217;t have to trick chicks.  Since he has determined his destiny, knows what he wants, grabs it, takes life full on, he truly is a natural.
The Captain naturally stands out in the croud, because he knows he is the Captain, he&#8217;s developed the skill to get the job done. He also gets paid for those skills. Not to mention respect &#8211; respect for himself ...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>When it comes to dating and mating, you can use your NLP to either develop you or to manipulate women.</strong></p>
<p>Use NLP to live FULL OUT  - and learn how to flirt &#8211; and you&#8217;ll naturally hook up.  done.</p>
<p><strong>You see if you think you need skills to meet women, you will get in the way of your natural charm.</strong>  Women love authentic charm, and women love men who appreciate their beauty.</p>
<blockquote><p>WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU CHOOSE TO BE THE CAPTAIN OF YOUR DESTINY?</p>
<p><strong>The Captain of the football team doesn&#8217;t have to trick chicks.  Since he has determined his destiny, knows what he wants, grabs it, takes life full on, he truly is a natural.</strong></p>
<p><strong>The Captain naturally stands out in the croud, because he knows he is the Captain, he&#8217;s developed the skill to get the job done. He also gets paid for those skills. Not to mention respect &#8211; respect for himself &#8211; respect for his plane &#8211; respect for his passengers &#8211; respect for his playmates.  Whoo yaah!</strong></p></blockquote>
<p><strong>Do what it takes to be the Captain.   Start Right Now!</strong></p>
<p>Mr Twenty Twenty<br />
<a href="http://www.innercircleproducts.com/apache-scout-mind-control-2012/" target="_blank"><strong>Take Control of Your Mind &#8211; Take Control of your Life &#8211; Approach Anyone &#8211; Magical Conversations &#8211; Apache Scout 2012</strong></a></p>
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		<title>Social Proof &#8211; Step by Step and Avoiding The Dark Side</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Sep 2010 20:58:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>mr2020</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Let&#8217;s face it.   No matter how much we want to pretend or assert we are lone pioneers, human beings are primarily pack animals.  If we see the pack is running toward something or someone, we tend to start running with them.
This is why social proof is so important to be aware of and something worth generating naturally and responsibly.   Below is a great way to do that &#8211; and how not to do that.
Paying pretty women to be seen with me.
A phone coaching client of mine liked the idea of paying attractive ladies to enjoy coffee with him at a local coffee shop.  He thought that being seen with attractive ladies would help him be more attractive to other attractive ladies who frequented the place.   He got that idea from one of the many teen movies where the geeky guy pays the pretty girl to date him.
Of ...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Let&#8217;s face it.   No matter how much we want to pretend or assert we are lone pioneers, human beings are primarily pack animals.  If we see the pack is running toward something or someone, we tend to start running with them.</strong></p>
<p>This is why social proof is so important to be aware of and something worth generating naturally and responsibly.   Below is a great way to do that &#8211; and how not to do that.</p>
<p><strong>Paying pretty women to be seen with me.</strong></p>
<p>A phone coaching client of mine liked the idea of paying attractive ladies to enjoy coffee with him at a local coffee shop.  He thought that being seen with attractive ladies would help him be more attractive to other attractive ladies who frequented the place.   He got that idea from one of the many teen movies where the geeky guy pays the pretty girl to date him.</p>
<p><strong>Of course, I understood where he was coming from</strong>, and at the end of our session we had helped him grow into a much better and much more powerful idea.</p>
<p>Instead of paying pretty women to be seen with him, we decided to help him bring the power home &#8211; by eliminating the tension and pressure he felt when it came to women.</p>
<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;Paying women to be seen with you can&#8217;t help but backfire, because you still aren&#8217;t bringing the power home.  Learning how to simply walk up to an attractive woman &#8211; after dealing with his loopy programming that was holding him back &#8211; made more sense and brought the power home.&#8221;</strong></p></blockquote>
<p>So we helped him develop some great alternatives to his old programming during a few training calls, and we taught him to notice and eliminate THE PRESSURE FACTOR.</p>
<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;Every time he approached an attractive lady, his programming was making it about getting her number or making it about being seen with someone attractive.  His programming was just putting unnatural pressure on both him and her.&#8221; </strong></p></blockquote>
<p>He never thought about or noticed THE PRESSURE FACTOR or how it made connecting with women so hard.   During our calls, he learned something very valuable.   Not every encounter with a woman (or a prospect) needs to be directed toward an outcome.  Sometimes just connecting with the human &#8220;on the other end&#8221; is what matters most.  Connecting without THE PRESSURE FACTOR opens the door to unlimited possibilities.</p>
<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;With all this in mind, he started being seen naturally in the company of attractive women, because he stopped making every encounter outcomes based &#8211; and he simply started allowing himself and them to enjoy each other&#8217;s company.  He eliminated THE PRESSURE FACTOR.&#8221;</strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Not only did he start being seen with lots of the local attractive women most guys wouldn&#8217;t walk up to, they started introducing him to their friends because he was so easy to naturally be with.  (Just 3 coaching sessions made this shift possible.  Think about how cool that is for him.)</p>
<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;So what does this have to do with social proof?  Everything.  Social proof NATURALLY grows for you, once you work out THE PRESSURE FACTOR &#8211; once it is easy for people to be with you.&#8221;</strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Having an outcome in mind is great &#8211; when you are taking action on a specific goal.   Having an outcome in mind that induces THE PRESSURE FACTOR, tends to make it very hard to get to know people, make or keep friends, or naturally develop &#8220;social proof&#8221;.</p>
<p>Have fun, and go get some of the <strong>Almost F<a href="http://www.innercircleproducts.com/almost-free-downloads/" target="_blank">ree NLP</a></strong>.  Pay what you want, take all you need.</p>
<p>Have an amazing day!</p>
<p>Mr Twenty Twenty</p>
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		<title>Rapport Coaching Work It For You Too?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Feb 2010 23:44:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[In just 8 weeks, James stopped using every rapport method he had ever learned, and just started connecting with people.
James started connecting naturally.
James started connecting easily.
James started connecting enjoyably.
8 weeks earlier, James emailed me.  He was pissed.  He was angry.  He felt all alone, that he had been gyped, he felt that nobody on earth understood him.
Except for me.
He had been reading articles here, on NLP LIVE for a few weeks.  The night he emailed me he had been reading for over an hour.    It was then, that it hit him.
&#8220;I don&#8217;t need more techniques methods or secrets, what I need is someone like you to, just do what you do.  I&#8217;ve heard you on your radio show, I&#8217;ve listened to your recordings, I&#8217;ve heard how you so naturally connect with people.  I need you to connect with me and help me get what I&#8217;ve been missing.  Would you please ...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>In just 8 weeks, James stopped using every rapport method he had ever learned, and just started connecting with people.</strong></p>
<p>James started connecting naturally.</p>
<p>James started connecting easily.</p>
<p>James started connecting enjoyably.</p>
<p>8 weeks earlier, James emailed me.  He was pissed.  He was angry.  He felt all alone, that he had been gyped, he felt that nobody on earth understood him.</p>
<p>Except for me.</p>
<p>He had been reading articles here, on NLP LIVE for a few weeks.  The night he emailed me he had been reading for over an hour.    It was then, that it hit him.</p>
<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;I don&#8217;t need more techniques methods or secrets, what I need is someone like you to, just do what you do.  I&#8217;ve heard you on your radio show, I&#8217;ve listened to your recordings, I&#8217;ve heard how you so naturally connect with people.  I need you to connect with me and help me get what I&#8217;ve been missing.  Would you please help me?  I need to connect with people, and I don&#8217;t want to keep trying to use rapport methods.&#8221;</strong></p></blockquote>
<p>So we did a total of 10 weeks of coaching.  Helping him &#8220;do what I do&#8221;.</p>
<p>Our calls were fun, challenging, and very unique.  They were NOT about rapport techniques or rapport methods.</p>
<p><strong>We did 10 weeks of rapport coaching, helping him notice when he did just 2 things.</strong></p>
<ol>
<li><strong>Notice when he was losing peoples interest and attention.</strong></li>
<li><strong>Notice when he left them behind, and went into his own little trance world.</strong></li>
</ol>
<p>I trained him how to NOTICE and USE ATTENTION, because:</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>All people want is attention &#8211; from you. </strong></p>
<p>If you don&#8217;t know how to NOTICE BOTH your attention and their attention, then you are probably one of those people who are frustrated, and wondering why you still can&#8217;t connect with people.</p>
<p>Let me know if this makes sense, and if you want in.</p>
<p>Email:  2020@exhostage.com</p>
<p>James, I thank you for asking me to do this kind of work with you.  I thank you for having the guts to reach out, to keep showing up for our calls, and for investing in you.</p>
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		<title>How to activate Real Burning Desire!</title>
		<link>http://nlplive.com/power-points-with-women/burning-desire/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Jul 2007 18:42:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>mr2020</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Success]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Women]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[&#8220;Fire in the belly puts to rest distractions in the mind&#8221;.
Are you a thinker, or are  you on fire?
Which girl do you want?
The HOT chick.     Especially if she has burning desire.

I&#8217;m not talking just sex here, I&#8217;m talking life.
What do you want for your kids?   You want them to have a burning desire and live life to the fullest.
Without a burning desire, without being able to see and think clearly, they will become couch potatoes, get self induced diabetes, be fat.  NEVER FULLY LIVE!
Want The Secret of How to get the hot chick and get your kids off the couch?

Generate burning desire WITHIN YOU.

Be the leader.   Take action.   Dream big and take constant tiny steps that will get you CLOSER TO THE FIRE!
Do it now!
Mr  Twenty Twenty
Mentor &#8211; Modeler
Do The Depth Course!
Inner Circle Products
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>&#8220;Fire in the belly puts to rest distractions in the mind&#8221;.</strong></p>
<p>Are you a thinker, or are  you on fire?</p>
<p><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-805" title="debbie" src="http://nlplive.com/wp-content/uploads/2007/07/hotgirl2.jpg" alt="debbie" width="120" height="160" />Which girl do you want?</p>
<p>The HOT chick.     Especially if she has burning desire.<br />
<strong><br />
I&#8217;m not talking just sex here, I&#8217;m talking life.</strong></p>
<p>What do you want for your kids?   You want them to have a burning desire and live life to the fullest.</p>
<p>Without a burning desire, without being able to see and think clearly, they will become couch potatoes, get self induced diabetes, be fat.  NEVER FULLY LIVE!</p>
<p>Want The Secret of How to get the hot chick and get your kids off the couch?<br />
<strong><br />
Generate burning desire WITHIN YOU.</strong><br />
<em><br />
Be the leader.   Take action.   Dream big and take constant tiny steps that will get you CLOSER TO THE FIRE!</em></p>
<p>Do it now!</p>
<p>Mr  Twenty Twenty</p>
<p><a href="http://www.justkickass.com">Mentor &#8211; Modeler</a></p>
<p><a href="http://thedepthcourse.exhostage.com/" class="broken_link">Do The Depth Course!</a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.innerwealth101.com">Inner Circle Products</a></p>
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		<title>How to be a REAL chick magnet in just seconds.</title>
		<link>http://nlplive.com/power-points-with-women/change-your-circumstances-by-discovering-your-character/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Jun 2007 22:22:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>mr2020</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Success]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Women]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Hey mate,

This is really simple.  Grandpa would tell me, &#8220;Don&#8217;t ever try to change your circumstances, discover and define your character.&#8221;
Men with character attract women, they attract success, they attract you.

So quit trying to change things, and start discovering the depth and strength of your character.
Take the challenge!
It&#8217;s a tiny bit more challenging than making people jump through hoops, which is what most trainers are doing out there, obviously we&#8217;ve taken a different route that what they are doing.

So how do you begin?  Begin with you.  Notice when you want to do something manipulative, notice when you want to hide, and stop.
Stop and allow some space to exist in your life.   Allow some discomfort to pass, and allow you to show up.
The powerful presence that results from MASTERING THIS, apache scout style, will permeate your entire life.
Remember, it&#8217;s not about doing anything to THEM, it is ...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-811" title="diane" src="http://nlplive.com/wp-content/uploads/2007/06/hotgirl1.jpg" alt="diane" width="218" height="163" />Hey mate,<br />
<strong><br />
This is really simple.  Grandpa would tell me, &#8220;Don&#8217;t ever try to change your circumstances, discover and define your character.&#8221;</strong></p>
<p>Men with character attract women, they attract success, they attract you.<br />
<strong><br />
So quit trying to change things, and start discovering the depth and strength of your character.</strong></p>
<p>Take the challenge!</p>
<p>It&#8217;s a tiny bit more challenging than making people jump through hoops, which is what most trainers are doing out there, obviously we&#8217;ve taken a different route that what they are doing.<br />
<strong><br />
So how do you begin?  Begin with you.  Notice when you want to do something manipulative, notice when you want to hide, and stop.</strong></p>
<p>Stop and allow some space to exist in your life.   Allow some discomfort to pass, and allow you to show up.</p>
<p>The powerful presence that results from MASTERING THIS, apache scout style, will permeate your entire life.</p>
<p>Remember, it&#8217;s not about doing anything to THEM, it is ALL ABOUT redefining who you are, and becoming who you desire to be.</p>
<p>Mr Twenty Twenty &#8211; Ex Hostage &#8211; Professional Visionary &#8211; Motivational Expert and Speaker who makes it real.</p>
<p><a href="http://nlplive.com">NLP Live</a><br />
<a href="http://www.innerwealth101.com">Inner Circle Products</a></p>
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		<title>Double your income.  Become responsible.</title>
		<link>http://nlplive.com/power-points-with-women/double-your-income-become-responsible/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 20 May 2007 14:31:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>mr2020</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Sales]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Success]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Women]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Okay,
It&#8217;s this simple.
Become responsible.
The most wealthy people I have met, modeled, and trained with are those who are responsible.
&#8220;I am responsible&#8221;.  Those words send chills up the spines of many people.  And those very same words can make your wealthy.
Think about it.
I was working with a fella who was being rejected by women.  Once he took responsibility and took action on how they perceived him his life changed, dramatically.
In sales, no matter what, if the sale doesn&#8217;t complete  you are responsible.
In my internet business, you&#8217;ll love this, 27% of my overseas orders were &#8220;not approved&#8221;.  These were orders from &#8220;dangerous&#8221; places like Canada and England.
So I could have just said so what, but I took responsibility for redesigning the order process at Inner Circle Products and now they flow like a breeze.
And while we worked on that I personally emailed every person who attempted to ...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://nlplive.com/wp-content/uploads/2007/09/2020site.jpg"><img src="http://nlplive.com/wp-content/uploads/2007/09/2020site.jpg" alt="" title="2020site" width="163" height="195" class="alignright size-full wp-image-726" /></a>Okay,</p>
<p>It&#8217;s this simple.</p>
<p>Become responsible.</p>
<p>The most wealthy people I have met, modeled, and trained with are those who are responsible.</p>
<p>&#8220;I am responsible&#8221;.  Those words send chills up the spines of many people.  And those very same words can make your wealthy.</p>
<p>Think about it.</p>
<p>I was working with a fella who was being rejected by women.  Once he took responsibility and took action on how they perceived him his life changed, dramatically.</p>
<p>In sales, no matter what, if the sale doesn&#8217;t complete  you are responsible.</p>
<p>In my internet business, you&#8217;ll love this, 27% of my overseas orders were &#8220;not approved&#8221;.  These were orders from &#8220;dangerous&#8221; places like Canada and England.</p>
<p>So I could have just said so what, but I took responsibility for redesigning the order process at <a href="http://www.innerwealth101.com">Inner Circle Products</a> and now they flow like a breeze.</p>
<p>And while we worked on that I personally emailed every person who attempted to order to help them make it happen.</p>
<p>What will YOU make happen today?</p>
<p>What will you become responsible for?</p>
<p>Mr Twenty Twenty &#8211; The Visionary .</p>
<p><a href="http://nlplive.com">NLP Live</a><br />
<a href="http://www.innerwealth101.com">Inner Circle Products</a></p>
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		<title>Pro&#8217;s don&#8217;t sit on their asses.</title>
		<link>http://nlplive.com/business-power-points/pros-dont-sit-on-their-asses/</link>
		<comments>http://nlplive.com/business-power-points/pros-dont-sit-on-their-asses/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 12 May 2007 14:43:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>mr2020</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Business]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Sales]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Success]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Women]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[This is LIGHTNING FAST&#8230;.  So let&#8217;s do it.
You can&#8217;t be a successful professional while sitting on your ass. It may sound obvious, but it&#8217;s true. You cannot be a successful professional while sitting on your ass. You have to get out and get dirty.
You have to be willing to get out and learn what other people aren&#8217;t learning. You have to get out and let people know that you know what you know.  You have to ask for the sale.  You have to take massive action.
You can&#8217;t sit on your ass.  You can&#8217;t make it unless you take action.
NLP Live
Inner Circle Products
]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is LIGHTNING FAST&#8230;.  So let&#8217;s do it.</p>
<p>You can&#8217;t be a successful professional while sitting on your ass. It may sound obvious, but it&#8217;s true. You cannot be a successful professional while sitting on your ass. You have to get out and get dirty.</p>
<p>You have to be willing to get out and learn what other people aren&#8217;t learning. You have to get out and let people know that you know what you know.  You have to ask for the sale.  You have to take massive action.</p>
<p>You can&#8217;t sit on your ass.  You can&#8217;t make it unless you take action.</p>
<p><a href="http://nlplive.com">NLP Live</a><br />
<a href="http://www.innerwealth101.com">Inner Circle Products</a></p>
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