First, lets get this totally clear.  ”What you want” is a question that will most likely keep you fat (or at least unfit) , frustrated, and broke. With that out of the way, let’s dive in. 1.  Stop doing what most people do. Most people have minds and lives that are totally want oriented. Wants inside your mind simply remain wants inside your mind.  That is the magic and the curse of language running the mind.  There … Read entire article »

“Because questions by their very nature – the questions you ask – largely determine how you think – what you think of – and what is possible for you to act upon in your life.” I asked them from the small platform, “Do you get how powerful questions have been in  your life?”  (I watched the entire group start thinking in the same direction.) “Have you noticed how questions set the direction of thinking?” “Are you noticing how questions (like the ones I am asking) literally can control your mind?” “Have you noticed how just one question – and how it is asked – can change your world – forever?”  (Think coaching calls and training weekends.) “Have you started asking yourself new questions, so you start getting what you want in life?  Have you … Read entire article »

Why do so many people struggle with NLP? They get results, they back off, they do change, but they go back to some “bad habits”.   In the end, most of the folks who stick with it tell me that it was well worth it – and some of them like me have discovered that there is a real secret to getting the most from NLP and speeding up the process. “And lead us not … Read entire article »