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One of the first things that I want you to notice is that like attracts like. You may notice that cranky people tend to hang out with cranky people. Poor people tend to hang out with poor people, and people who savor and appreciate life hang out with, and are attracted to people who savor and appreciate life.  Wealthy people. Carol and I stopped by a restaurant to eat tonight. We got stranded on our way down to Austin, Texas to visit Joe Vitale. We picked one of the better restaurants in the area that we just got a good feel for. Both of us wanted an exceptional and relaxing dinner. Our server was a wonderful girl named Sara. During the course of the evening she told us that she was … Read entire article »

Okay, Like Rodney King you got jammed up. You got jammed up because of “the rules”. Notice the theme in this fascinating story. I was in an NLP / Persuasion seminar a short time ago in Arizona. Two fellas were working on a technique with each other. One guy askes, “How did it work?” They were looking for change based in technique. Think about this buckwheat. This assumes the technique is more powerful than you. It also assumes if you are strong or fast enough or messed up enough the technique won’t work. What a dismal future, no matter which one you chooose.  Or your trainer chooses.  That’s what god Rodney King beat. There were too many rules that prevented the officers from just grabbing him and … Read entire article »

Okay, Here is a quick lesson on Embedded Commands and on Life Strategy. Embedded commands are commands that are HIDDEN in the structure of a sentence. Once you learn them, you will notice people using them all the time. Unconsciously.  They become much more powerful if you USE THEM WITH FOCUS. Onward.  A question or two on life strategy. What TYPE of life do you want?  Where are you focusing your skills? Are you going Full Steam Ahead or are you settling for Rescue Boat Living. Rescue boat folks are LOOKING FOR A QUICK TECHNIQUE, person or event to change things. Here are a few examples. If I only perfect Embedded Commands then my life will be perfect. Once I hit the lottery things will be great I dream that Mr.. Right will…. That’s life boat living, it does get … Read entire article »

Bill… Bill says Apache Scout 1 is one of our best. I know it’s a great set that transforms lives…. Yes, I track how it shows up in your language. I just love the whole set, and I’ll agree.    It’s simply The fastest way to challenge any bull and get Good answers… And it’s great to get through your bullshit, If you can turn it on yourself. (That’s where the Loops come in.  Nobody is teaching loops Like this, and the tonal challenges from that first volume  just skyrocket your results) A real quick summary…. Of just the Tonal Challenges from Volume I… Notice how these can have different meanings Based on the capitalized focus. Bill SAYS Apache Scout 1 is one of our best. BILL says Apache Scout 1 is one of our best. Bill says APACHE Scout 1 is … Read entire article »

How to FINALLY get what you really want! by: Mr Twenty Twenty I just got off the phone with a potential client, who just isn’t worth the work. Sometimes you can’t pay me $1500 an hour to work with CERTAIN PEOPLE! Mark told me he is agoraphobic, in other words he has this thing called “agoraphobia” that totally rules his life. And he is certain that it can’t be helped. Yet he is calling me. So I asked, him, “Mark what do you want?” He tells me he doesn’t want agoraphobia. He tells me that he doesn’t want to stay at home and panic all day. He tells me how this has ruined his life. He tells me how he get’s Social Security because he can’t get a job. He tells me…. Mark tells me … Read entire article »

Promotion Secrets “First and MOST IMPORTANTLY build something of value, then people will not only pay for it, but promote it as well.” Since NLP is about making useful distinctions this distinction may be useful for you, assuming that you would like to make more money. Or having a better life by any means. This site is a simple example. And so are our products. I do very little promotion, and get over 78 percent of my business from repeat customers and their referrals. My guess is that is because my focus is on the quality of the result, whether it is a phone coaching call or product.  Even in a simple email. “Simply put, if you find my product or service useful enough, you will tell your friends about it.  The same is true … Read entire article »

Up Front NLP by: Mr Twenty Twenty Let’s assume you want the quickest, most lasting, and easiest results with your NLP and persuasion activity. Keeping that in mind… (I wish more than a few Psychologists would learn this…) Some people “say” that when we are gathering information, to make sure we don’t “lead” the client. And that can be useful, but perhaps impossible. Because when you are being observed, especially if you know you are being observed, behavior changes. Just notice this. So let’s assume that we can’t observe “behavior”, what ever that means, without influencing it. We could assume also that anytime you ask any question, remember those pesky NeuroLinguistic Programming questions, anytime you ask a question, you have to lead the client. So to settle it here and now, anytime you ask a question, before … Read entire article »

Four reasons people get stuck in NLP, and what to do about it! Part I by: Mr Twenty Twenty 1. People use too much NLP jargon. So, Stop Using Jargon. Simply don’t try to impress your self or others with what you are learning with jargon. Hang out at any beauty salon, and learn anchoring. Watch the show 24 to learn about loops. Those are just two of the simple things we do to help people “get” what they thought they knew about neuro lingustic programming. What other big word Nelper skills can you simplify to the real world, which is where they came from anyway. 2. Don’t work at NLP. Play with NLP like how you eat. Just take 15 minutes a day to observe what people do with Pictures, sounds, and … Read entire article »