Weird NLP Shit – Unleashing Personal Magnetism

Weird Shit To Do With NLP #1: Make someone like you.  This one is a pretty common use of NLP, one that I don’t like because of it’s built in pitfalls, but it’s worth mentioning.  To make someone like you with NLP, all you have to do is help them generate the states of liking something or someone – and then direct or attach those states to you.    It’s actually pretty easy, once you understand how to use questions that bring up good feelings.

“One strong positive you can learn from using questions to direct other peoples states, is to almost NEVER ask questions that bring up “bad states”.  I know one fella who ONLY asks questions that make people feel bad.  He makes lots of money, getting people to sign contracts for his biz, but his personal life TOTALLY BLOWS because of this approach.“

Weird Shit To Do With NLP #2: Make someone likable.  I’ve never seen this demonstrated or done in a training, other than trainings that I have taught.  This one too, uses the power of questions.   I developed this approach after watching a “whiney bitchy man” attempt to get rapport with 3 chicks at a bar, by whining and bitching like they were.  Obviously he didn’t become more likable, he just became another “whiney bitch”.

“If he would have understood more about Unleashing Personal Magnetism with NLP, he would have gotten a much different result.  He could have “made the girls more likable”    To make someone else (like those girls) more likeable, all you need to do is Unleash Your Personal Magnetism.”

Weird Shit To Do With NLP #3: Become enlightening, lighten up, reduce your load, eliminate stress and unleash energy – in yourself and in those around  you.  Literally, the kind of questions you ask, and WHEN AND WHERE you ask them, will either FREE you, or IMPRISON you – and those around you.

“The kind of questions you ask will either free those around you, or manipulate them like play toys.   So…. Let’s ask questions, in a much better way.“

THE POWER OF PRECISE INTERNAL QUESTIONS.

Step 1:  Presenting the key.

If you use the Meta Model or Milton Model like most people teach it, you will ask questions that make you sound like a lunatic, piss off your friends, and alienate people you want to get to know.  So if you are into NLP, learn the Meta Model and The Milton Models themselves, learn WHY they work, and then abandon all obvious use of them.

Step 2:  Here is how to turn the key in the lock.

Don’t lead people.  Don’t use questions to lead them, force them, or direct them to a destination of YOUR choice.  In other words, don’t decide you want HER to like or agree with you, and THEN use questions to make that happen.   People actually do feel when they are being led, manipulated, forced or directed by another person.  You may win the battle, and get your way, but you will never know what naturally could have happened if….   So NEVER lead people with language.  Here is what to do instead.  Open the door.

Step 3:  Click!  Here is how to open the door.

Set a direction for your life.  Simply choose three STATES that YOU PERSONALLY choose to live in – moment to moment.  Dedicate yourself and your life to THIS STATE.  If your chosen states are NATURALLY ATTRACTIVE, you will unleash your personal magnetism – and you won’t have to do anything to anyone EVER AGAIN.

“My Chosen States are “joy”, “love”, “peace”.   What I like about those three Chosen States, is that they have an invitational feel to them.   I simply invite you to them, by being them.”

Those who want more of those states, will be naturally attracted to me.  Those who want, “chaos, control, fear” will tend to leave me and leave me alone.

To become my Chosen States, all I have to do use a simple question INTERNALLY and notice, “Is my behavior inviting me AND those around me to experience more “joy”, “love”, and “peace”.

“If my behavior is inviting me AND those around me to experience more of these states, I continue what I am doing.  If NOT, then I IMMEDIATELY STOP what I have been doing – and then move on to the POWER POINT.”

Power Point:  I STOP.  I wait – and I notice – what naturally shows up next in my behavior and in the world – to invite me and those around me back to more “love, joy and peace”.

This NATURAL approach to Unleashing Personal Magnetism is so much more fun, and natural, and freeing, and postive than forcing my way on to other people.

Having to ask THEM questions, to put them into states like desire and passion and wantingness, and then using language to attach those states to me, it just feels yucky and it’s un-natural to do.

Print out this article, and put it to use.  And if you honestly like my approach to life, nlp and stuff, head over to Inner Circle Products and pick up a product or some Almost Free NLP Training stuff.

You will be glad you did!

Mr Twenty Twenty

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