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Hey mate,
Before you read this post, keep your mind open to ambiguities. There are many obvious and hidden meanings and lessons in everything. At least that is what the Apache Scouts / Zero Chiefs say.
Onward!
Today Carol and I went to breakfast at a local diner. Too bad you couldn’t join us.
Ed’s Diner has the best poached eggs and rye toast. My favorites.
And the serving wenches are pretty, and nice.
Would you believe, I call them serving wenches, and I do it to their face?
(You should see the looks I get, from the OTHER customers.)
Now get this. Most people call serving wenches “servers” now.
I guess that is the correct term. However, while most people are calling my wenches “servers” to be nice and correct, those same customers treat them with disrespect.
Most patrons of Ed’s call them servers which is the correct term, and treat them like slaves, lower class, menial labor. (Guess who gets better service, and who is blessed by getting to really know these beautiful women? Me. Nuff said.)
On the other hand, I do what matters. I call them serving wenches, whileI take the time to treat them with respect, get to know them, find out about their hopes and dreams. When we travel we bring back special gifts based on what we know about them.
Remember I call them wenches, but my behavior let’s them know that I really care.
Apply this to your life.
Ignore what you and other people say, it’s way to edited and SLOW.
Notice what people, including you DO.
It’s part of Seeing The Invisible. It’s also why our Light Speed Calls and Live Trainings Rock.
Because if you are buying into your auditory, what you say, the stories you tell yourself, the explanations and justifications you have… it’s going to be slow going, it’s going to be highly edited, it’s going to be…. not all that powerful. (And you will be technique focused…. Trust me, I’ve been SEEING this for over 2 decades now.)
And on the other hand, if you are learning how to SEE more and FEEL MORE, notice the ambiguity there, you will have more kool stuff show up in your life.
Yo Buckwheat! Read this one AGAIN, and write out the major points.
And you will get how an EX NLP Guru, highly trained in Apache Scout Awareness, and native american cosmology can transform his life (Ex Hostage, PTSD diagnosed, suicidal, broke, loser), and how he can train you in how to transform yours. (Hint, it aint about learning techniques… it’s about learning how to stay awake just a little bit more, and notice EXACTLY what you have been missing.)
Remember, techniques and skills are useful, but it is much more POWERFUL to notice what you’ve been missing. Think about it. Visionaries, Leaders, and Real Kick Arse Men don’t focus that much on techniques and skills (that’s what salesmen and PUA addicts do).
Winners, Visionaries and Real Men focus on noticing more, waking up more, developing more, so they can do what others don’t even see, much less see as possible.
Do a LightSpeed Coaching Session This week.
Come train with me for 2 to 4 days in Austin Texas, the live music capital of the world, at the end of this month.
You will be very glad you did!
Later,
The ExHostage - Professional Visionary formerly known as John Wingert
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Posted on May 13th, 2008 by Twenty Twenty
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Hi 20,
I am an ex serving wench like you are an exhostage. Thank you for cutting through the crap and remembering we are people too I loved when people like you were my customers because I felt like a real person. Keep keeping it real
Bobbi